{"id":31897,"date":"2026-07-12T11:24:42","date_gmt":"2026-07-12T11:24:42","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/saharanews.in\/?p=31897"},"modified":"2026-07-12T11:24:42","modified_gmt":"2026-07-12T11:24:42","slug":"parental-phone-habits-psychology-says-its-not-just-a-childs-screen-time-but-also-a-parents-phone-habits-that-affect-their-behaviour","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/saharanews.in\/?p=31897","title":{"rendered":"Parental Phone Habits: Psychology says it&#8217;s not just a child&#8217;s screen time but also a parent&#8217;s phone habits that affect their behaviour"},"content":{"rendered":"<p> <br \/>\n<\/p>\n<div>\n<div class=\"e9jwa\">\n<div class=\"vdo_embedd\">\n<div class=\"GfdvZ\">\n<section class=\"_bIDB  clearfix id-r-component leadmedia undefined undefined  E9tg9 \" style=\"top:0px\">\n<div class=\"_bIDB\" data-ua-type=\"1\" onclick=\"stpPgtnAndPrvntDefault(event)\">\n<div class=\"ypVvZ\">\n<div class=\"WGttI\"><img src=\"https:\/\/static.toiimg.com\/thumb\/msid-132342687,imgsize-1324809,width-400,height-225,resizemode-4\/image-canva.jpg\" alt=\"Psychology says it's not just a child's screen time but also a parent's phone habits that affect their behaviour\" title=\"Image: Canva\" decoding=\"async\" fetchpriority=\"high\"\/><\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/section>\n<\/div><\/div>\n<\/div>\n<p>Parenting today is dominated by one constant concern- \u201cShould children be given the liberty to use screens?\u201d Many parents spend time worrying about things like- \u201cIs one hour of gaming too much?\u201d or \u201cShould I allow my toddler to watch cartoons?.<!-- -->\u201d While the questions come from a place of concern and care, there\u2019s another screen that deserves just as much attention, and it is the one in parents\u2019 hands.<span class=\"id-r-component br\" data-pos=\"3\"\/>Psychology says the phone habits parents portray in front of their kids can affect the child\u2019s behavior and family bond. <span class=\"id-r-component br\" data-pos=\"5\"\/><\/p>\n<div class=\"lY6ke\">\n<div class=\"Yl6Us\">\n<p>6 Jul 2026 | 14:01<\/p>\n<h2>What factors did you consider, or would consider, before choosing the right school for your child?<\/h2>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<p> Checking a work email while your child is talking. Replying to a WhatsApp message during dinner. Scrolling through social media while pushing a swing in the park. <!-- -->These moments seem insignificant because they last only a few seconds. Yet, when repeated several times a day, they can quietly interrupt one of the most important ingredients of healthy child development: responsive attention. This phenomenon is called Technoference.<!-- --> <span class=\"id-r-component br\" data-pos=\"12\"\/> <\/p>\n<div data-pos=\"0\" class=\"id-r-component iIpbx undefined  &#10;        \">\n<div><img decoding=\"async\" alt=\"Image: Canva\" msid=\"132342689\" width=\"\" title=\"Image: Canva\" placeholdersrc=\"https:\/\/static.toiimg.com\/photo\/83033472.cms\" imgsize=\"\" resizemode=\"4\" offsetvertical=\"0\" placeholdermsid=\"47529300\" type=\"thumb\" class=\"\" src=\"https:\/\/static.toiimg.com\/photo\/msid-132342689\/image-canva.jpg\" data-api-prerender=\"true\"\/><\/p>\n<p>Image: Canva<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<p><span class=\"id-r-component br\" data-pos=\"15\"\/><\/p>\n<p><h2>What is Technoference? <br \/><\/h2>\n<\/p>\n<p><span class=\"id-r-component br\" data-pos=\"17\"\/>In simple words, Technoference comes from two separate words- technology and interference. We see how in almost every family, phones have become a constant companion. For example, phones and other devices are becoming a constant companion during meals or playtime. <span class=\"id-r-component br\" data-pos=\"21\"\/><\/p>\n<p><h2>Why technoference impacts children <br \/><\/h2>\n<\/p>\n<p><span class=\"id-r-component br\" data-pos=\"23\"\/>Technoference is basically how often technology disrupts face-to-face relationships. While smartphones themselves are not the enemy, psychologists say how and when parents use them matters. While each of the technological interference between a child and his parents\u2019 interaction may last for a few seconds, over time, it reduces meaningful interaction between the two. <span class=\"id-r-component br\" data-pos=\"26\"\/>Researchers believe these interruptions matter because children develop through thousands of everyday conversations, shared smiles, eye contact and moments of joint attention.<span class=\"id-r-component br\" data-pos=\"28\"\/><\/p>\n<p><h2>What does research say?<br \/><\/h2>\n<\/p>\n<p><span class=\"id-r-component br\" data-pos=\"30\"\/>One of the landmark studies on this topic was <a href=\"https:\/\/www.sciencedaily.com\/releases\/2017\/05\/170524101501.htm\" rel=\"noopener nofollow noreferrer\" styleobj=\"[object Object]\" class=\"\" target=\"\" commonstate=\"[object Object]\" frmappuse=\"1\">conducted by researchers at the University of Michigan<\/a>. The research was published in the Child Development journal. The study suggested that about half of parents reported that technology interrupted time with their children three or more times on a typical day. <!-- -->Even in low amounts, interruptions to parent-child time caused by digital technology are associated with greater child behavior problems such as sulking, frustration, and whining. <span class=\"id-r-component br\" data-pos=\"36\"\/><\/p>\n<p><h2>Why attention matters so much in childhood<br \/><\/h2>\n<\/p>\n<p><span class=\"id-r-component br\" data-pos=\"38\"\/>Think of how a baby responds when a parent smiles at him- The baby smiles again. In another situation, think of a toddler excitedly showing her parents a butterfly, and the parents look in that direction and say \u201cYes! Isn\u2019t it beautiful?\u201d While these simple conversations look ordinary, they\u2019re an important part of brain development. <!-- -->Developmental psychologists often describe such healthy parent-child communication as &#8220;serve-and-return&#8221; interactions.<!-- --> According to the Center on the Developing Child at Harvard University, serve-and-return interactions help build neural connections responsible for language, emotional regulation, learning and social skills. Frequent interruptions reduce the quality of these interactions as attention becomes divided. <span class=\"id-r-component br\" data-pos=\"44\"\/><\/p>\n<p><h2>Research from China points in the same direction<br \/><\/h2>\n<\/p>\n<p><span class=\"id-r-component br\" data-pos=\"46\"\/>Studies published in Computers in Human Behavior have also explored what researchers call parental phubbing- a combination of the words &#8220;phone&#8221; and &#8220;snubbing.&#8221; Parental phubbing refers to parents paying more attention to their phones than to the people physically present with them.<span class=\"id-r-component br\" data-pos=\"49\"\/>Several studies involving Chinese families have found that higher levels of parental phone dependence are associated with increased anxiety, loneliness, emotional difficulties and behavioural problems in children and adolescents.<span class=\"id-r-component br\" data-pos=\"52\"\/><\/p>\n<p><h2>Simple changes can provide solution <br \/><\/h2>\n<\/p>\n<p><span class=\"id-r-component br\" data-pos=\"54\"\/>Parents don\u2019t need dramatic digital detoxes to improve family interactions. Instead, small, intentional habits can make a meaningful difference. Many child psychologists recommend creating predictable &#8220;phone-free&#8221; moments throughout the day. <span class=\"id-r-component br\" data-pos=\"56\"\/> <\/p>\n<div data-pos=\"0\" class=\"id-r-component iIpbx undefined  &#10;        \">\n<div><img decoding=\"async\" alt=\"What parents can do\" msid=\"132342697\" width=\"\" title=\"What parents can do \" placeholdersrc=\"https:\/\/static.toiimg.com\/photo\/83033472.cms\" imgsize=\"\" resizemode=\"4\" offsetvertical=\"0\" placeholdermsid=\"47529300\" type=\"thumb\" class=\"\" src=\"https:\/\/static.toiimg.com\/photo\/msid-132342697\/what-parents-can-do.jpg\" data-api-prerender=\"true\"\/><\/p>\n<p>What parents can do <\/p>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<p><span class=\"id-r-component br\" data-pos=\"59\"\/>No parent can be fully present every minute of every day, and psychology doesn&#8217;t expect perfection. The broader message is that children don&#8217;t simply count the hours they spend with their parents- they experience the quality of those hours.<span class=\"id-r-component br\" data-pos=\"61\"\/><\/div>\n<p><br \/>\n<br \/><a href=\"https:\/\/timesofindia.indiatimes.com\/life-style\/parenting\/toddler-year-and-beyond\/psychology-says-its-not-just-a-childs-screen-time-but-also-a-parents-phone-habits-that-affect-their-behaviour\/articleshow\/132342897.cms\">Source link <\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Parenting today is dominated by one constant concern- \u201cShould children be given the liberty to use screens?\u201d Many parents spend time worrying about things like- \u201cIs one hour of gaming too much?\u201d or \u201cShould I allow my toddler to watch cartoons?.\u201d While the questions come from a place of concern and care, there\u2019s another screen&#8230;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":31898,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[29],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-31897","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-life-style"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/saharanews.in\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/31897","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/saharanews.in\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/saharanews.in\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/saharanews.in\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/saharanews.in\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=31897"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/saharanews.in\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/31897\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/saharanews.in\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/media\/31898"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/saharanews.in\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=31897"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/saharanews.in\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=31897"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/saharanews.in\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=31897"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}