{"id":17908,"date":"2026-05-22T07:58:43","date_gmt":"2026-05-22T07:58:43","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/saharanews.in\/2026\/05\/22\/trishala-dutt-youre-going-to-have-to-save-yourself-sanjay-dutts-daughter-trishala-says-bullying-began-at-5-the-parenting-lesson-hidden-inside-trishala-dutt\/"},"modified":"2026-05-22T07:58:43","modified_gmt":"2026-05-22T07:58:43","slug":"trishala-dutt-youre-going-to-have-to-save-yourself-sanjay-dutts-daughter-trishala-says-bullying-began-at-5-the-parenting-lesson-hidden-inside-trishala-dutt","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/saharanews.in\/?p=17908","title":{"rendered":"Trishala Dutt: \u201cYou\u2019re going to have to save yourself\u201d: Sanjay Dutt\u2019s daughter Trishala says bullying began at 5, the parenting lesson hidden inside Trishala Dutt\u2019s painful childhood |"},"content":{"rendered":"<p> <br \/>\n<\/p>\n<div>\n<div class=\"e9jwa\">\n<div class=\"vdo_embedd\">\n<div class=\"GfdvZ\">\n<section class=\"_bIDB  clearfix id-r-component leadmedia undefined undefined  E9tg9 \" style=\"top:0px\">\n<div class=\"_bIDB\" data-ua-type=\"1\" onclick=\"stpPgtnAndPrvntDefault(event)\">\n<div class=\"ypVvZ\">\n<div class=\"WGttI\"><img src=\"https:\/\/static.toiimg.com\/thumb\/msid-131258847,imgsize-937594,width-400,height-225,resizemode-4\/1.jpg\" alt=\"\u201cYou\u2019re going to have to save yourself\u201d: Sanjay Dutt\u2019s daughter Trishala says bullying began at 5, the parenting lesson hidden inside Trishala Dutt\u2019s painful childhood\" decoding=\"async\" fetchpriority=\"high\"\/><\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/section>\n<\/div><\/div>\n<\/div>\n<p>For years, many people assumed Trishala Dutt grew up with privilege, glamour and the comfort of being born into one of Bollywood\u2019s most famous families. But behind the public image, her childhood looked very different.<!-- --> Speaking on the YouTube channel Inside Thoughts Out Loud, Trishala opened up about growing up in New York while battling racism, bullying, loneliness and the devastating loss of her mother, actress Richa Sharma, who died of a brain tumour when Trishala was just eight years old.<span class=\"id-r-component br\" data-pos=\"3\"\/>The daughter of actor <a href=\"https:\/\/timesofindia.indiatimes.com\/topic\/sanjay-dutt\" styleobj=\"[object Object]\" class=\"\" commonstate=\"[object Object]\" frmappuse=\"1\">Sanjay Dutt<\/a> said that despite coming from a famous family, she often felt emotionally isolated as a child. \u201cYou just have yourself to rely on,\u201d she said while talking about bullying during her school years. <!-- -->\u201cFor me, I was an only child at the time and I had nobody to lean on except for myself. And a journal.\u201d<span class=\"id-r-component br\" data-pos=\"10\"\/><\/p>\n<p><h2>Bullied for looking \u201cdifferent\u201d<br \/><\/h2>\n<\/p>\n<p><span class=\"id-r-component br\" data-pos=\"13\"\/>Trishala revealed that the bullying began when she was only five or six years old. She said she was mocked for being Indian, for her appearance, and later for gaining weight.<span class=\"id-r-component br\" data-pos=\"15\"\/>\u201cThe bullying started when I was about five or six and it was me being Indian\u2026 me having my eyebrows connected, me having frizzy hair, hair on my face,\u201d she recalled. As she grew older, the scrutiny intensified. By high school, classmates had discovered she was Sanjay Dutt\u2019s daughter, bringing a new layer of expectations and judgment.<span class=\"id-r-component br\" data-pos=\"19\"\/>\u201cI just didn\u2019t fit and I just didn\u2019t look the part of Sanjay\u2019s daughter,\u201d she said candidly. \u201cI wasn\u2019t what society expected.\u201d The emotional impact stayed with her for years. Trishala admitted she turned to food for comfort while coping with her mother\u2019s illness and the loneliness surrounding her childhood.<span class=\"id-r-component br\" data-pos=\"22\"\/> <\/p>\n<div data-pos=\"0\" class=\"id-r-component iIpbx undefined  &#10;        \">\n<div><img decoding=\"async\" alt=\"2\" msid=\"131258865\" width=\"\" title=\"\" placeholdersrc=\"https:\/\/static.toiimg.com\/photo\/83033472.cms\" imgsize=\"\" resizemode=\"4\" offsetvertical=\"0\" placeholdermsid=\"47529300\" type=\"thumb\" class=\"\" src=\"https:\/\/static.toiimg.com\/photo\/msid-131258865\/2.jpg\" data-api-prerender=\"true\"\/><\/div>\n<\/div>\n<p><span class=\"id-r-component br\" data-pos=\"25\"\/>\u201cWhat I relied on was just food actually, because food filled the void and food filled the comfort,\u201d she said. \u201cI wish I had somebody to talk to\u201d. One of the most striking parts of the conversation came when Trishala spoke about not having an emotional support system while growing up. Asked whether there was anyone she could confide in, she simply replied, \u201cNo. It was just me.\u201d That loneliness eventually pushed her toward journaling, something she began doing at 13 and still continues today.<span class=\"id-r-component br\" data-pos=\"28\"\/>The conversation also touched on how many children silently internalise bullying, especially in cultures where vulnerability is often mistaken for weakness. Trishala\u2019s story became less about celebrity life and more about what happens when children feel emotionally unseen.<span class=\"id-r-component br\" data-pos=\"30\"\/><\/p>\n<p><h2>The sentence that changed her life<\/h2>\n<\/p>\n<p><span class=\"id-r-component br\" data-pos=\"32\"\/> <\/p>\n<div data-pos=\"0\" class=\"id-r-component iIpbx undefined  &#10;        \">\n<div><img decoding=\"async\" alt=\"Sanjay Dutt with Maanayata Dutt and Trishala\" msid=\"131258881\" width=\"\" title=\"Here's a adorable photo of Sanjay Dutt with wife Maanayata Dutt and lovely daughter Trishala. (Photo: Instagram)\" placeholdersrc=\"https:\/\/static.toiimg.com\/photo\/83033472.cms\" imgsize=\"\" resizemode=\"4\" offsetvertical=\"0\" placeholdermsid=\"47529300\" type=\"thumb\" class=\"\" src=\"https:\/\/static.toiimg.com\/photo\/msid-131258881\/sanjay-dutt-with-maanayata-dutt-and-trishala.jpg\" data-api-prerender=\"true\"\/><\/p>\n<p>Here&#8217;s a adorable photo of Sanjay Dutt with wife Maanayata Dutt and lovely daughter Trishala. (Photo: Instagram)<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<p><span class=\"id-r-component br\" data-pos=\"35\"\/>Years later, one conversation with her aunt became a turning point. \u201cMy maasi actually told me\u2026 \u2018Trishala, nobody\u2019s going to come and save you. <!-- -->You\u2019re going to have to save yourself,\u2019\u201d she recalled.<span class=\"id-r-component br\" data-pos=\"39\"\/>She described it as a \u201clight switch\u201d moment that changed how she saw herself and her future. Trishala went back to school, studied psychology, and eventually became a therapist specialising in anxiety and depression. Today, she says her painful experiences helped her understand why people bully others in the first place. \u201cWhen people pick on you\u2026 it\u2019s because they are lacking something from within,\u201d she said. <!-- -->\u201cIf I pick on you, you become smaller and I become bigger.<!-- -->\u201d<span class=\"id-r-component br\" data-pos=\"44\"\/><\/p>\n<p><h2>Why she believes parents matter so much<\/h2>\n<\/p>\n<p>Although the interview focused heavily on her own struggles, some of its strongest moments carried an unmistakable parenting lesson. Speaking about children dealing with bullying, Trishala stressed how important supportive parents can be during vulnerable years.<span class=\"id-r-component br\" data-pos=\"47\"\/> <\/p>\n<div data-pos=\"0\" class=\"id-r-component iIpbx undefined  &#10;        \">\n<div><img decoding=\"async\" alt=\"Sanjay Dutt with daughter Trishala\" msid=\"131258871\" width=\"\" title=\"Sanjay Dutt with daughter Trishala\" placeholdersrc=\"https:\/\/static.toiimg.com\/photo\/83033472.cms\" imgsize=\"\" resizemode=\"4\" offsetvertical=\"0\" placeholdermsid=\"47529300\" type=\"thumb\" class=\"\" src=\"https:\/\/static.toiimg.com\/photo\/msid-131258871\/sanjay-dutt-with-daughter-trishala.jpg\" data-api-prerender=\"true\"\/><\/p>\n<p>Sanjay Dutt with daughter Trishala<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<p><span class=\"id-r-component br\" data-pos=\"50\"\/>\u201cIf you have supportive parents, I think that\u2019s a great thing,\u201d she said. Later in the discussion, she also urged parents to limit children\u2019s exposure to social media, warning that young minds absorb criticism deeply. <!-- -->\u201cWhen you are young, your brain is like a sponge,\u201d she said. \u201cAnything you read, especially if it\u2019s about you, you\u2019re going to internalize that and it\u2019s going to stick with you forever.\u201d The conversation repeatedly returned to one idea: children notice far more than adults realise.<!-- --> The words spoken at home, the way parents talk about themselves, and the emotional safety children feel inside their own family can shape confidence for years.<span class=\"id-r-component br\" data-pos=\"56\"\/>Trishala\u2019s story is ultimately not just about celebrity pressure or public scrutiny. It is also a reminder that children do not always need parents to \u201cfix\u201d every problem, but they do need someone who listens, reassures, and makes them feel less alone while facing it.<span class=\"id-r-component br\" data-pos=\"58\"\/><\/div>\n<p><br \/>\n<br \/><a href=\"https:\/\/timesofindia.indiatimes.com\/life-style\/parenting\/moments\/youre-going-to-have-to-save-yourself-sanjay-dutts-daughter-trishala-says-bullying-began-at-5-the-parenting-lesson-hidden-inside-trishala-dutts-painful-childhood\/articleshow\/131258854.cms\">Source link <\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>For years, many people assumed Trishala Dutt grew up with privilege, glamour and the comfort of being born into one of Bollywood\u2019s most famous families. But behind the public image, her childhood looked very different. 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