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<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/section>\n<\/div><\/div>\n<\/div>\nR Madhavan has opened up about ageing, life planning and the challenges of staying relevant in a rapidly changing world. Speaking about his current work and personal reflections, the actor emphasised that while people are living longer today, very few are truly prepared for what comes after retirement.In an insightful conversation with Varun Dua, Madhavan shared that he is embracing roles that align with his real-life phase. \u201cI\u2019m playing a very age-appropriate role… there\u2019s a lot more grey than the last time,\u201d he said, acknowledging the natural process of ageing, while talking about his web series Legacy.<\/p>\n Watch<\/span><\/p>\n R. Madhavan Says Dubai Fans Traveled To India Just To Watch Dhurandhar Amid Sequel Hype<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n <\/p>\n Highlighting advancements in medical science, the actor pointed out that longevity is increasingly becoming the norm. \u201cIf you stay healthy and take care of your lifestyle, staying alive till 90 is not such a big deal anymore… even 90 to 100 years is becoming a reality,\u201d he noted.However, he quickly added a caution\u2014while lifespan is increasing, life planning has not kept pace.<\/p>\n Madhavan broke down life into three phases to explain the gap in long-term planning. \u201cThe first 30 years of your life are properly charted… the next 30 years are about building your career and family. But at 60, there is a hard stop. The next 30 years of your life are not charted. There\u2019s no plan,\u201d he said.According to him, this lack of preparation can drastically impact one\u2019s quality of life. \u201cThat can be the difference between heaven and hell,\u201d he added.<\/p>\n Watch<\/span><\/p>\n R. Madhavan urges caution for senior actors romancing younger heroines: ‘May look Sleazy’<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n <\/p>\n When asked about his biggest fears, the actor was candid. \u201cMy worst fear is being dependent\u2014physically or financially\u2014on someone. That is worse than hell for me,\u201d he admitted.He also spoke about the importance of dignity and contribution in later years. \u201cLoss of dignity is something I cannot accept. I should be able to contribute, otherwise I\u2019d rather not be a part of it,\u201d he said.Reflecting on retirement, Madhavan highlighted how abruptly life can change, especially in structured careers. \u201cOne Monday you\u2019re a \u2018sir\u2019, the next day you\u2019re just a citizen. You lose that relevance, that authority,\u201d he explained.He stressed that people often underestimate the emotional and psychological impact of this transition.<\/p>\n The actor also spoke about the importance of discovering a higher purpose. \u201cThe only way to get rid of your small issues is to find a higher purpose to serve. When you start serving others, your problems seem smaller,\u201d he said.However, he acknowledged that reaching that stage requires stability. \u201cIt\u2019s very difficult to think about serving others when your own survival\u2014health or finances\u2014is at stake,\u201d he added.<\/p>\n Summing up the paradox of modern life, Madhavan pointed out a growing imbalance. \u201c60 is the new 45 in terms of health\u2014I can still be active. But financially, 45 is the new 30. You\u2019re not stable yet,\u201d he observed.This, he believes, calls for a complete rethink of how people approach life planning.Madhavan concluded by urging people to plan holistically\u2014for health, finances and emotional well-being. \u201cIf you\u2019re going to live longer, you have to plan better\u2014not just for money, but for purpose, relevance and independence,\u201d he said.<\/div>\n\u2018Living till 90 is not such a big deal anymore\u2019<\/h2>\n<\/p>\n
\u2018The next 30 years of your life are not charted\u2019<\/h2>\n<\/p>\n
Fear of losing independence<\/h2>\n<\/p>\n
Finding purpose beyond survival<\/h2>\n<\/p>\n
\u201860 is the new 45, but 45 is the new 30 financially\u2019<\/h2>\n<\/p>\n