![\"Mother](\"https:\/\/static.toiimg.com\/thumb\/msid-130632851,imgsize-1044253,width-400,height-225,resizemode-4\/mother-makes-child-urinate-from-a-bridge-at-baidyanath-dham-viral-video-sparks-debate-what-parents-should-do-when-kids-have-urgent-needs-in-public.jpg\")
<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/section>\n<\/div><\/div>\n<\/div>\nA recent video from Jharkhand\u2019s Baidyanath Dham has triggered widespread debate among netizens. In the now-viral clip, a mother is seen casually making her child urinate from a bridge, which falls directly on the bypassers below. Many criticised the mother\u2019s actions, and noted that urgency should never come at the cost of safety. On the other hand, the incident also highlighted a big parenting struggle many parents go through, and that is handling a child\u2019s urgent needs in public. Parents must understand that children\u2019s urgent needs are unpredictable, but the response must always be thoughtful and safe. Here are five practical ways on how parents can handle such situations better: <\/p>\n A little preparation can go a long way, especially when you\u2019re travelling or on an outing with children. Keep essentials like diapers, wipes, and tissues, and disposable bags. This not only helps manage the situation quickly but also ensures hygiene is maintained.<\/p>\n Parents should ensure that their child uses the restroom before stepping out of the house, or even before entering places where restrooms are not available. Even if the child says they don\u2019t feel the urge to go, parents should make sure they make one round. This small habit can significantly reduce the chances of urgency later.<\/p>\n Children don\u2019t always express their needs clearly, especially when they are shy. However, there are signs of them feeling discomfort. When children feel the need to use the restroom, they often fidget, cross their legs or even hold themselves. <\/p>\n Children often wait until the last moment; when things become unbearable for them. Encourage children to speak up as soon as they feel the urge. Teaching them to communicate their feelings isn\u2019t only about bathroom needs, it also helps them become more aware of their emotions. Also, when a child knows how to communicate, they turn out to be more confident individuals, and also understand their responsibility. <\/p>\n No parent can predict an awkward situation, but what makes the difference is a parent\u2019s choice to be aware. When parents are alert, calm, and responsive, they not only handle situations better but also model thoughtful behaviour for their children. Over time, this builds a child\u2019s own sense of responsibility, empathy, and social awareness.<\/p>\n Teaching children responsibility from an early age lays the foundation for how they behave in public and also in private spaces. When children learn to understand their needs and communicate them on time, they become mindful. Small habits shape their sense of accountability. And most importantly, when children learn independence, they build independence and confidence.<\/div>\nMake sure to carry an emergency kit
<\/h2>\n<\/p>\nPlan ahead before stepping out
<\/h2>\n<\/p>\nWatch for non-verbal signs
<\/h2>\n<\/p>\nEncourage children to communicate their needs
<\/h2>\n<\/p>\nThe role of awareness in parenting
<\/h2>\n<\/p>\nWhy parents should teach children responsibility early
<\/h2>\n<\/p>\n